Random acts of kindness and a quick wish for everyone (Day 24 - being grateful for KINDNESS)
This article is part of my December Gratitude series that aims to end the covid-year on a more positive and inspiring note.
In Slovakia, we celebrate Christmas on the 24th. In our house, during the time we eat, the presents are brought under the tree. Which makes it harder for the parents Jesus or Santa or whoever brings your presents - than just putting them under the tree during the night and eating a cookie :). Based on that logic, I am writing this on Christmas morning and reflecting on what is essential.
I don't care for the traditions that involve cutting apples in half, covering the forehead in honey or throwing nuts in corners. But there is one unique tradition we have in our home that is more meaningful now than ever. We always have an extra plate on the table. In some families, it is reminiscent of a member that has passed away that year. We have it for anyone who would be alone or wandering around on this day. Sometimes we were joined by family members. But other times, my dad on his way to the grocery store walked around the area to see if any homeless people are around to join us. So far, this has only been symbolic, as I don't remember anyone being with us, but the plate always stays there.
I said previously that Christmas is just a tradition that can be postponed and enjoyed later. Fortunately, my family and I are still safe and healthy, and we will be spending this day together. However, this year, the agreed on the plate on our table symbolising everyone who is on their own. This became the case for more and more of my friends. With all my heart, I will be sending love to you, appreciating my privilege even more.
Before I continue, I would like to note that I have never done what I am about to do. I used to roll my eyes a little every time someone tagged me on generic family Christmas tree photo that wishes me to be merry. But this year I won't be grinchy and even though I won't be tagging people, I guess somehow I am joining the group of tree senders with writing the following.
To all of you, alone or surrounded by loved ones, no matter how far you are or what are you doing on this day
I wish you all the health one can get, empathy to make this world a more tolerable place and unconditional love that will lead you to kindness.
There is never enough kindness or the random acts of it. They can be just as small as gifting a Poinsettia (Christmas rose) or sending a letter to a friend and letting them know how much they mean to you. Last week I was given the rose and yesterday, I received one of those letters. It made me realize I definitely don't do these often enough. Opening doors, giving a compliment, writing a letter, picking up litter outside or those grander ones, like donating to charities and helping at shelters… I want to make an effort to try and just make the upcoming year a whole lot of kind.
Just remember the simplest of things can make the most significant impact on someone else.
